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There are other books about gay men and bottoming, but there is little material written by a licensed psychotherapist that addresses gay men’s bottom sexual issues in more candid detail. Lots of material written by therapists exists for straight men, and gay men can sometimes “translate” these for a partial benefit. These fears hinder gay men from a more robust quality of life, because they hinder having a more robust sex life they go together.
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In this two-part blog article on overcoming sexual fears, I will discuss both fear of bottoming, and actually fear of topping (see link here) I see both of these in practice. My clients seem relieved that they have someplace to go to discuss these things with a professional. I’ve been helping guys with sexual issues for almost my whole career, though, because most of my clients are gay men who feel more comfortable discussing very personal sexual issues with another gay man, especially one with a lot of experience and one who doesn’t shy away from frank discussions of intimate details. Lately, I’ve had more and more gay men come to me with issues more specifically about sex therapy, and currently as of this writing (June, 2019), I’m undergoing the education and supervision process to become a Certified Sex Therapist.
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I work with guys on lots of issues and disorders, such as depression, bipolar disorder, OCD, ADD, substance abuse recovery, dating skills, career planning, and couples in conflict. I’ve been a specialist in therapy and coaching for gay men for over 27 years, as individuals and couples. The peach emoticon is often used in apps for gay men like Grindr or Scruff to connote an ass, or bottoming.